Reasons Why He Won't Propose

Every relationship that's not clearly defined is an absolute waste of years and commitment. So many adults claim to be "in a relationship" without a logical purpose. It's always a disheartening experience, if after so many years of making a relationship work, you then discover that the relationship has a future but without you in the picture. Being in a supposed serious relationship with your partner must involve visible signs of commitment and long-living. At that point, you can't afford to be disappointed; you should know what you represent in the relationship. If you've been together for years and it seems there's no plan of having you-two, living together-forever, here are obvious signs to observe and critically consider.

No. 1 - If you are the opposite of him.
When it comes to marriage, a man want a woman that will complement him; a woman that knows or would like to know abit about his career or job details. Lets take for an instance, If he's a Public speaker, he won't get along with a lady that's shy or can't make an appearance before the crowd. Even when we know: we all aren't the same, a man would desire a lady that's presentable not just to his parents and families but also at the official front, hence, he won't propose.



No. 2 - If you talk faster than your brain.
Such a lady on a round table with friends, among families or relatives is a bad deal. He sure won't propose.


No. 3 - When you play the boss.
Sometime ago, i heard a lady telling her man: "baby, don't worry, i will rent the apartment for us" Oh no, you just killed his ego! How about: "baby, i will lend you the money to rent the apartment but you will pay back" and if he doesn't, at least you never wanted a pay-back at first. Let him be in-charge of taking sensitive decisions.



No. 4 - When you mistake being classy as being expensive.
No man will desire a woman that pays maximum attention to what she wears even when he wants her to look good. Getting the latest of this and that doesn't mean you've got money or you're so comfortable, it only means nothing else receives your attention other than how expensive you look. Such won't make a good wife with a man with prospects. He just won't propose.



No. 5 - If you are not from his home-town.
Weird but true and such does exist. Some men will not marry any lady not in their state or from their home-town. The earlier you know, the better for you.



No. 6 - If there's an 'already-made' lady somewhere.
He won't propose.



No. 7 - If his mother doesn't like you.
It's no comics that some men are totally controlled by their mother and we have those whose decisions could be highly influenced by their mother. Young lady, instead of wasting your time while waiting forever, just watch the mother's body language, you could have a clue if she want you around her son.




No. 8 - Religion differences and family acceptance.
This sometimes could be complex. Where the wedding will hold, what prayers will be said etc. Alot comes with religion differences. If he comes from a family where their beliefs are considered uttermost. It would be difficult for you to be accepted, hence, he won't propose unless he chooses to stand against his family or win their mind over.



No. 9 - If he's still living with a friend or still in his parent's house.
I think what he needs the most and what's best for you both, is his freedom. That's when you two can plan for a good future together.



No. 10 - If the only time you have a need is when you call him.
Read again, that could be the definition of a pest. LOL. He won't propose.